I, Being born a Woman and Distressed

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed' (1923) is a poem about female sexuality and desire written byEdna St Vincent Millay. Don't let its short length and seeming simplicity fool you, this poem carries a lot of complexity and leaves a lot of room for debate.

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed': context

Let's look first at the background of the author.

Biographical context

Edna St. Vincent Millay is a celebrated 20th-century poet known for her sonnets. While many Modernists were busy throwing out and innovating traditional literary forms, Millay was perfecting her sonnets. In her poetry, Millay found expression for her experiences of gender and sexuality, conveying feminist messages.

She was at the height of her popularity in the early 1920s, winning the Pulitzer Prize for Poetry in 1923 for her poetry collection,The Harp-Weaver, and Other Poems(1923), which included 'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed'. Millay was open about sex and sexuality, openly identifying as bisexual and having several flings with both men and women. Millay's public image was defined by her talent, sexual liberalism, and beauty.

In the same year, after rejecting many suitors, she married Eugen Jan Boissevain, the widower of a leading American suffragist. The two had an open marriage – with both consensually engaging in sexual affairs – for 26 years.

Social and historical context

What about the social context of her work?

The New Woman

Edna St. Vincent Millay has been hailed a 'New Woman' icon and 'I, Being born Woman and Distressed' examines new forms of womanhood taking shape amidst the social and cultural change of the early 20^thcentury.

The New Woman pursued her own needs and desires, seeking financial, social and sexual freedoms and independence. The New Woman is politically engaged, educated and pursues her own career. The term 'New Woman' does not refer to a singular female identity, but encompasses the many ways women broke away from gender norms in the early 20^thcentury.

The Roaring '20s

The poem is set in the 1920s, a time of prosperity and social and cultural change. In 1920, the United States government passed the 19^thAmendment and women were given the vote. By being given equal voting rights to their male counterparts, women were officially recognised as people in their own right.

Many women wanted to be members of society on an equal footing with men; many moved to urban centres to pursue their careers. To get in on the fun, women began to dress in less conservative clothing and pursued romantic and sexual connections without marriage as a necessary end goal.

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed': poem

Here is 'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed' (1923) by Edna St. Vincent Millay in its entirety:

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed': summary and meaning

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed' is about a woman examining her feelings and coming to the conclusion that all she feels is lust for the man to whom she is attracted.

The poem works against the expected, traditional content of asonnet, therefore creating a slightly ironic, mockingtone.

The irony comes from the fact that sonnets are traditionally declarations of love, but this poem is instead an unromanticdeclaration oflustand anaffirmation of female sexuality.

Different interpretations and debate

Some readers think that the poem is actually tongue-in-cheek andironicand that the speaker is not actually overcome by her desires. The speaker's use ofhyperbolic('distressed', 'stout blood against my staggering brain') andoverly-formallanguage ('propinquity' meaning closeness) hints at thesonnetbeing a mockery of such dramatic expressions.

There is also debate over whether this poem is about aninternalorexternalstruggle. Is the poem spoken out loud to the addressee or is she speaking to herself?

此外,有暗示了什么g happens in the real world between the speaker and the man she is addressing? When the speaker says that she was 'undone, possessed', it could be interpreted that she acts on her lust and she sleeps with him. The poem also holds the implication that they will 'meet again', perhaps because they are lovers.

Or, it could be interpreted that she is left 'undone, possessed' by her own lust because it 'clouds' her mind temporarily. The fact that the poem ends with the refusal of conversation with this person ('I find this frenzy insufficient reason / For conversation when we meet again') can be taken as evidence that this utterance was never said out loud.

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed': themes

Let's first look at the themes of the poem, so you can keep them in your mind as we discuss the differentliterary elementsandpoetic devicesused.

Gender and sexuality

The poem's centralthemeis female desire and sexuality. In this poem, a woman talksopenlyabout her sexuality, which was rare at the time.

Millay's declaration that women have sexual 'needs and notions' is important because, at the time, it was believed that women didn't have sexual desires as men did. On top of this, it was believed that men could separate love from lust, but that women could not.

The poem is blatantly honest about female sexuality, yet it is not just a straightforward proclamation of female desire, as the speaker seems to resent her sexual feelings for this man.

The body vs. the mind

The main tension in the poem is between the body and the mind, or between lust and reason. By using reason, the speaker is able to discern between love and lust; just because you feel a strong attraction to someone, it does not mean you love them.

Essentially, the poem has a 'mind over matter' message: through reason, the speaker can assert control over her body; you can't control who you're attracted to, argues the speaker, but you can use reason to control how you act. It is this prevalence of reason over passion that makes the poem soanti-romantic:as in a romantic poem, passion triumphs over reason.

This tension is reflected by the juxtaposition of mind and body terms in several lines: line 7 juxtaposes the speaker's 'pulse' with her 'mind', line 10 juxtaposes 'blood' with 'brain' and line 13 juxtaposes 'frenzy' with 'reason'.

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed': analysis of form and structure

How about form?

Form

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed' is written in the form of a Petrarchan (Italian)sonnet.

Asonnettraditionally has fourteen lines, and a Petrarchansonnetdivides these fourteen lines into two sections:

• theoctave(an eight-linestanza)

  • composed of two quatrains (two sets of four lines)

  • with arhymepattern of ABBA ABBA

• thesestet(a six-linestanza)

  • composed of two tercets (two sets of three lines)

  • with arhymepattern of CDC DCD or CDE CDE

Traditionally, theoctavepresents a problem that is resolved in thesestet.

• One view is that Millay subverts our expectations of the problem and resolution structure of the sonnet by making theconflictan internal one between the speaker's body and mind, a conflict between lust and reason.

• Millay further subverts the Petrarchan sonnet by renouncing intimacy in the concluding sestet, rather than giving in to her lustful feelings and calling it 'love'.

• The speaker's ability to frankly declare that she does not feel any lovemocksthe confusion of love for lust that often takes place in the sonnet form. (Is Shakespeare's 'Shall I compare thee to a summer's day' truly a declaration of love, or is it one of lust?)

Metre

彼特拉克sonnets are traditionally written iniambic pentameter.

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed' is written in iambic pentameter, with somesignificant variations.

For example, there are two keyspondees.

• In the first foot, 'I, be' are both syllables that are stressed. Spondees are used for emphasis. The poem opens with an emphasis on the speaker's self, kicking off the poem with a burst of high energy that presents us with a self-assertive female speaker.

• This spondee is coupled with acaesura(a break in the middle of a line), as a pause is abruptly created by the comma between 'I' and 'being'. The speaker immediately asserts herself and disrupts the flow of thesonnet, telling the reader that this won't be a traditional sonnet. This disruption in metre and rhythm highlights Millay's disruption of the sonnet form by making a woman the speaker and lust the subject, as opposed to love.

• However, if you think that the opening to the poem is ironic, you might read this caesural spondee as purposefully over the top and dramatic.

• The spondee here is 'stout blood'. These stressed monosyllabic words with strong consonants create a strong, thick sound, connoting the thickness of the speaker's 'stout' blood. You can almost feel these words pulsating against the line of the poem like blood in a vein.

• This spondee serves to highlight the way the speaker's sexual desires overwhelm her mind.

Another key variation to note is the expansion of most of the lines in thesestet: lines 9 through 11 and 13 hold an extra syllable, making upeleven syllablesper line as opposed to the ten syllables expected of poetry written in iambic pentameter.

• Perhaps, these lines have been engorged like veins ('stout blood') as lust tries to take over the poem, but the speaker's reason triumphs over her lust, subduing the final rhyming lines - lines 12 and 14 - back to ten syllables.

Rhythm

As we have seen, the rhythm of the poem is immediately halted within its firstmetrical footby the use ofcaesura.

The rhythm remains pretty steady for the rest of theoctaveuntil it ends with a halt:

这rhyth暂停m implies that she has momentarily given into her lust. Caesuras are also used in the finalsestetto create a sense of relentlessness:

There is a sense of defensiveness in the caesuras, showing firmness in the speech: the speaker does not love the addressee and she wants to make this perfectly clear to him.

Rhyme

The poem follows a rigidrhyme schemetypical of Petrarchan sonnets: ABBA ABBA, CDC DCD.

We can interpret the consistency of therhyme schemeas a迹象表明,演讲者总是保留一定程度的control throughout the poem, even as she is moved by feelings of lust. The rhyme scheme also heightens the ironic tone of the poem, as the words 'zest', 'distressed' and 'breast' sound comical when put together, rather than creating the romantic and sensual tone expected of asonnet.

'I, Being born a Woman and Distressed': analysisof poetic and literary devices

Speaker

Millay inverts the traditional role that women have occupied in sonnets with her female speaker. In thissonnet, the woman is thesubject, not the object,of desire.

Tone and mood

The tone can be interpreted as:

• anti-romantic
• ironic
• honest
• assertive
• bold
• impersonal
• logical

Diction

A sonnet is often full of high praise for the object of desire, but Millay's sonnet is devoid of romantic, endearing language.

Millay usesoverly-formal languagethat portrays her desires as out of her control:

• The speaker says she is 'urged' by his proximity to find him attractive. She can't help finding him attractive but this isn't because he is particularly attractive, it's just because he is nearby.

• 'Propinquity' is an overly-formal word meaning 'closeness', but ironically, because of its formality and outdatedness, it actually connotes distance, not closeness.

The speaker also usesunderstatementsto show she feels nothing more than lust, which create a mocking, ironic tone:

The speaker's refusal to 'season' her 'scorn with pity' is interesting as it calls to mind thedomestic rolewomen are expected to fulfil, cooking and seasoning men's meals to their liking. She refuses to perform the domestic role expected of her by refusing to enter into a romantic connection with the addressee.

Imagery

The poem is full of physical, bodily imagery, such as:

The use of bodily imagery contributes to thethemeof body vs. mind in the poem. Millay's depiction of the female body rebels against the way the female body was often sexualised and objectified in sonnets by male speakers.

Alliteration

Alliteration is a prominent feature of the poem, being used in almost every line and even spilling into other lines throughenjambment.

This use of plosive alliteration amplifies the speaker's experience of lust. It alsoaccentuates the shift intoneto suddenly a sexual nature, taking the reader by surprise.

There is a lot more to uncover in this poem, so don't let the analysis end here. What isyourinterpretation?